ABSOLUTELY NOT. hat

Absolutely not. And that's a complete sentence.

Another birthday dinner at the place with the share plates? Absolutely not. Volunteering for the school disco committee? Absolutely not. Texting him back after he "got busy" for three weeks? Absolutely, categorically not.

For the girl who has finally learned the word no and is making up for lost time. For the mum who's done being the default for everything. No explaining, no softening, no "sorry, I just can't." The hat does the talking so you can get back to your wine.

Soft corduroy dad cap with a relaxed fit and curved brim, finished with cream embroidered lettering and a full stop, because the matter is closed. Available in Navy Corduroy and Dusty Pink Corduroy.

• One size fits most (adjustable strap with metal clip)
• Cream embroidered lettering
• Corduroy, relaxed dad cap fit, curved brim
• For the friend whose boundaries are stronger than your WiFi